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Ask Dr. Helen: Dating the Divorced

May 15, 2008 - 12:30 am - by Helen Smith
Johnmc
2008-05-15 13:37:10

” Mama73:

If you got married to them in the first place, even if they beat you, cheated on you, stole from you, lied to you, you do share at least half the blame.”

Huh?? So if some guy who has been reverent and faithful has been sleazed by a unfaithful partner its still half their fault? Oh please divine the logic of how that should occur?

The first step in a cure for what ails ya is full and uncommitted responsibility, 100% its your fault when that party is the solicitous party. Your prescription is a total rejection of responsibility. And if one can ascribe 50% blame to the aggrieved party then it is is a fast slippery slope that it is 100% the other parties fault.

Sorry I am not buying it.