Hello Charlie,
I agree that it seems many divorced men jump right back into a relationship very quickly, often repeating their same mistakes. Unfortunately, though women seem to take longer, I have seen a number of them repeating their same mistakes or, lets say, relationship avoidance or problem causing behaviors.
I once knew a woman, as a casual friend (she has sort of disappeared), who must have run through around a dozen relationships during the one year period I knew her. She got upset with me when I mentioned that she had a habit of talking about each guy as THE catch, and then constantly raising her bar of expectations until he failed to jump over the next level. My take was that raising the bar was her way of making sure there was no way she would have to take the risk of a real relationship, but always had a great excuse why each person simply wasn’t right for her.
