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Ask Dr. Helen: Single Men in Never-Neverland

February 7, 2008 - 1:05 am - by Helen Smith
Rod
2008-05-15 09:42:30

The reason women can’t find a “decent” man to marry is because they are hyperamous. Meaning: They generally marry up the ladder in society or cultural status. If a girl is 22 and has just graduated from college with her Bachelor’s degree and is looking to get married, she would never marry a guy who has just a High School Diploma. And if she is 25 and has a Master’s degree, she wants the guy to at least have a master’s or preferably a P.H.D. So it’s not that men are afraid of women who are “smart” or educated ( although there is good reason for this )it’s that the more educated a woman is the less available men there are in the pool for them to choose from. It’s there own fault.

It’s biological. Females want to be able to respect and look up to a man. Since the beginning of recorded human history it was always this way. Until recently because of second wave feminism (1960′s). The female would leave the protection of her father and her new husband would take his place. Providing for her and protecting her and making a respectable women out of her while she was still at a young age. Before she was corrupted by the outside world (man’s world). It was not uncommon at all for the man to have already done a 4 year tour in the military or college and been sowing his oats for a few years after, before settling down with a wife at age 23-28.She was much younger, maybe 16-19 years of age. It fit and was suitable. Why would a 17-18 year old girl want to settle down with a 17 year old boy? At 17-18 a girl is ready to start a family and to please and take care of her husband. But a boy at 17 is not. Heis still many years from being able to pick up where her father left off and be a husband and a father.

This hypergamous relationship works and is natural. But because of feminism it has destroyed this. There are not enough men for these so called “educated” women to marry. Even if she has a bachelors degree and teaches school and makes a salary of $35,000, she will not want to marry a man who is a high school grad who is a welder or pipefitter. Even if his salary is $60,000. Because he is not higher on the social scale than her. He is considered by her to be less than her.
So any woman who get’s a master’s of PHD is just basically eliminating 99% of the prospective men from her life, by her own standards, not his.