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Any time you have set expectations in a relationship of how your partner should behave or what he/she should buy you, there’s a problem. I don’t mean we shouldn’t all expect kindness and respect from our mates, but when you get into the pattern of telling yourself “if he loved me he would buy me this, or say these specific words” or “if she loved me she would do this for me” you are in trouble and need to back up and re-evaluate how you are viewing your partner and your relationship.