Wow. Never in my life thought I’d ever use the phrase “knee jerk conservative” but here it is. Fortunately the readers appear to be a bit more rational.
The “message” as noted before by others is that Tony Stark is upset that his weapons are being sold to terrorists to be used -against- US soldiers.
It has nothing to do with being anti-military and everything to do with traitors who would sell weapons to the enemy, and Stark didn’t want to make any more weapons because he couldn’t guarantee that would be in the right hands.
I’m as tired as anyone of leftist propaganda in film, but this doesn’t have it, so take the goggles off and go see it again.





