Rob,
Apparently you haven’t been reading well enough. As per Heather: “I use the terms “sluttish” and “promiscuous” descriptively, to refer to the type of behavior that leads to the following dilemma, assumed by Columbia’s Go Ask Alice health website to be perfectly normal: A girl suspects that her drunken sexual encounter with a guy ended in intercourse.”
Sluttish? Promiscuous? Sorry, but you don’t win here Rob.
Another area you don’t win in Rob is this: “College-aged women would be well-advised to not get drunk and get alone with men they do not know; they may consent to something they later regret. Or worse — they may be raped in the true, never-offered-consent sense of the term.”
College girls are raped FAR more by men they KNOW, were intimate with prior to him raping her and even friends, than men they don’t know. Those are the statistics stated in every study on the subject of college girl rape. Much of which goes under-reported, also a fact according to every single study.
What a women learns is that every man she meets is a potential rapist. Sad but true. In knowing that, this is a segment of our society that for all intents and purposes is told to fear men. New consent laws add to this conclusion. There are two people in a rape. The raped and the rapist. Increasingly, to the apparent groaning of men, the law is on her side. That being said it is basically up to MEN therefore, to change that preception by NOT raping, not forcing themselves on women and realizing that a drunk girl is not his “green light.” Don’t you think?
All over college campuses, a drunk college girl is not at fault when she is raped – because – the drunk cannot give their consent. Slut, or not.
As per http://www.tulane.edu/~tmar/guys.html
No matter what she drank, wore, or the way she acted, rape is NOT her fault…
[ Do not even get us started on this one. As we said above, women are NEVER responsible for being raped. It doesn't matter how she dresses, how much she drank or how much she provoked and teased you. She does not deserve to be raped. When a women wants to have sex it is her choice when, where and with whom she will do it. Men have the same choice. You can't blame her. Stopping rape is solely in the hands of the male community. ]
the more you know…
