Dan,
You are missing an important element to Heather’s article, the “double-standard.”
Her apparent opinion of, “dress like a slut, act like a slut, get treated like a slut,” and thus deserve anything that happens whether or not the woman can coherently object to sex or not. This charge is, obviously, still pervasive in our society and continues to hurt women yet still acceptable.
The flip side to her double-standard is to excuse all men from any sexual fault. releasing him of physically, morally, or intellectually determining whether said “slut” is capable (or not) of consenting to sex. Which basically feeds into the old addage that women deserve what they get.
This is something a man will never understand unless by some thunder bolt strike of God he becomes a woman for say a few months. Which isn’t a bad idea in theory and would do a great deal in the way of experiencing and completely understanding what it is to be female, in the physical sense as well as emotionally…the whole nine yards so to speakand live to tell about it. And before the guys go completely batsh!t on me, the opposite would be rather interesting for us as well.
