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Ask Dr. Helen: Should Men Get Married?

October 31, 2007 - 2:01 am - by Helen Smith
Tim M.
2008-04-04 07:47:38

When i was in the Navy SeaBees i was once called into the office for counseling because of faltering job performance. After discussing the causes which were primarily my marriage to someone who is miserable and selfish i recieved the best piece of advice i’ve ever heard about women from Senior Chief Eaton(G-d Bless him) he told me it took him two failed marriages to figure this out, but in a nut shell if a woman does’nt have a good relationship with her father she’ll never have a good relationship with any man. At first this seemed a little to all encompassing but for the last 14 years i’ve looked at other people’s good and bad relationships and his observation bears out 95% of the time. Over time the common sense of this became apparent. A female learns how to deal with males how and when? At home from childhood on starting with her own father.