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Ask Dr. Helen: Should Men Get Married?

October 31, 2007 - 2:01 am - by Helen Smith
Alice AN
2008-03-30 01:25:33

Reading these posts makes me realize that Marriage indeed is just not for everyone.

Yes, there are some really nasty women out there – and an equal number of mean men.

I tend not to generalize and treat everyone as an individual. Stupidity is not gender discriminatory.

That said, a real feminist would not take a man to the ringer – she’d have a job and a career of her own. It’s the lets play house-wife types that usually become mean and vindictive. With all the new technology gadgets, such women simply have too much time on their hands to be miserable about not having more to do. Doing laundry? What exactly are you doing besides throwing clothes into the washer? The machine does the washing, while you sit in-front of the TV watching day time soaps. Cook? Ha!

Honestly – the statistics prove my point. If you want a good marriage. Find yourself an educated woman with a life of her own and insist she keeps her job – at most taking off a year or two when the kids are really young.

And please – the lazy wannabe leaches – who want to sit around the house all day claiming they are rearing kids – and then rob their Husband of all his contribution to the marriage fund in divorce – are NOT feminists. Dom Female and Submissive Male is not an equal partnership! I would not support it, just as I would not support the reverse. That’s true feminism.