I’ve Seen My Share of Spitzers: The View From an Escort Service
I only decided to comment because the article was very well written. Thank you Ruth.
It took me several years to get over my negative feelings of the escort industry after having run 2 agencies (none were high class) for a total of 6 1/2 years. My biggest issue were the escorts, NOT the clients. My clients were very nice, it was the escorts who caused me 90% of the problems, so you can feel sorry for them & that just makes me laugh.
After starting my business selling books on “How to run & operate an escort agency”, & then the book on “How to Become an Escort”, I started to realize that I really needed to be here.
I am not here to convince anyone of anything.
Closed minded humans will ALWAYS be closed minded. They live in fear, they judge, & 90% of the time they don’t understand what they are fighting for.
I will always believe that a woman has the right to do whatever she wants with her body. NO ONE can own another human being no matter how much they try.
Telling females they can’t become an escort (they AREN’T hookers or whores) is trying to control another human being – bottom line, & I bet that almost every single person reading this or who posted knows someone who is an escort whether you know they are or not.
But the US (Canada so so) & (other countries too) in general, try to control human beings by telling them what they should & shouldn’t do. They do this to control, plain & simple.
They can’t just concentrate on their own lives & stop sticking their nose into other people’s business, because then they would have to admit their weaknesses. It’s much more fun for people to blame & accuse others, then to take responsibility for their own stuff.
It is my joy to help people who wish to get into the escort industry.
It is also my duty to try & clean up the industry.
Will I do it by myself?
No, of course not, but that doesn’t mean I won’t stop trying.
This isn’t about whether that one man cheated on his wife.
Of course his wife knew what was going on, all wives know deep down inside, they just play the “I’m ignorant” card.
I don’t agree with cheating & lying & you might find this hypocritical, but it’s not.
While most men are married, there are many single men who see escorts too.
In this unfortunately very very sexually dysfunctional society people live in, I’d rather see a man hire an escort, than use women for sex & then walk away all the while she is heart broken because she didn’t get that he wasn’t interested in anything more, etc.
In fact it’s a proven fact that where escorting is legal, the rate of sexual abuse & rape is very low, but of course people will argue with those statistics because once again, people don’t want to see the reality, they only see what they want to see.
Men are NOT just paying for sex, & anyone who believes this is ignorant & doesn’t know what they are talking about.
Men are paying for the entire package. They want to be able to talk to someone who won’t judge them. In fact I believe that many men who see escorts are really truly looking for love.
Whether they use sex as a means to getting to that love, that’s another discussion entirely & you can see that all over the internet, just go visit a dating site, it’s all about sex over there TOO!
Are all escorts great people? Nope, not even close, but I strongly believe that if society didn’t lash out at the industry & call it a criminal act, the industry would naturally clean itself out.
Are escorts forced into the industry? NONE of the girls who buy my books are being forced.
These are women who need my help because they are going to get into the industry whether you like it or not, & I’d rather educate them the proper way than have them start off on the wrong foot.
When you criminalize something, it naturally brings forth the criminal element. Dahhh
Most escort agency owners AREN’T pimps, but then again some are.
I wasn’t a pimp, I wasn’t even a so called “Madame” as one of my escorts later on told me.
I was an entrepreneur who just happened to be very open minded.
I didn’t even start in the industry because of money, I started my first agency because I wanted to help the “girl next door types” just like me who wanted to be escorts. They had nowhere to go that was safe, where the owner wouldn’t force them to sleep with him & even female owned agencies can force the girls to do things that go against my code of ethics, so to believe that ONLY men are to blame is sexist.
I won’t continue because I could be here all day, but escorts choose to become escorts.
I DON’T tolerate any forcing of anything, & I would just as quickly out a “pimp” style agency owner if I were to find out he bought my material & was planning on opening.
Just like I out the nasty escorts who are emotionally disturbed.
I feel that is my duty.
I don’t believe in slavery, or underage girls, but beyond that, I see absolutely nothing wrong with a person choosing their own career path, so long as they aren’t hurting themselves or others.
I believe politicians & lawyers do far more harm to our society than an escort or escort agency owner will ever do & to think that every escort goes out & blackmails or steals is hilarious.
As for the Governor LOL, ummm, you think people in politics don’t lie & aren’t hypocritical? LOL, man you people are naive.
Lastly, to all the men who don’t cheat on their partners/wives, I applaud you.
I am not here to lump all men into the same category.
Men will pay for escorts, you can’t stop it & you never will AND, men who aren’t rich & powerful will also pay. Whoever thinks this is ONLY for the rich is once again, very ignorant.
It’s the 2nd oldest profession & if you people would just get off your high horses & concentrate on your own issues instead of trying to control everyone else’s, maybe you would have a better life & actually be happy.
Attacking others when you don’t even know what’s going on is mean spirited.
My intent here is not to inflame, but to voice my opinion as I have the right to have one. If I’ve educated you in some way, I’m happy to do so.
I wish everyone all the best & please no attacks towards me, I don’t tolerate that kind of behavior.
Thank you
Michelle





