#142 Sebastian – I respect you for saying so plainly, honestly, and respectfully what you are like. What I respond so negatively to is the “radical” gay community who is constantly pushing their lifestyle into my face through all the various machinations to achieve equality, and to also be just plain mean because of their own insecurities, and real or imagined injustices.
My own experience is that there is a creature of nature that for whatever reason is attracted to the same sex. I won’t deny their existence and I don’t want to be judgmental. Most people are naturally attracted to the opposite sex, and unlike #156, if they are honest with themselves, men like the female form, voice, hair, and other charms and women likewise like men for much the same reason. There is a sexual attraction and fulfillment to be had that just doesn’t come to mind for them (same sex attraction that is).
I know that there are those gays who are “fem” as you put it. You can see it in their build, the way they walk, talk, etc. And like you, there is a spectrum of “gayness” which may or may not be apparent. But there is also a cultural phenomena where young people are “choosing” to be gay because it is “hip”, evidence of being open minded, tolerant, etc. Some choose to “explore” while others never think of such a possibility.
