Yaakov Watkins’s comments are the other side of the coin, indeed. I left that part out in my Man-ifesto.
First: don’t put up with abuse.
Second: make her the one, or at least favorite wife, if you are a Playboy at heart, and mean it, as in actually choose her as the best wife. If one lover wants monogamy, indicate that you as a man are sacrificing your dream for her, so you expect her to *never* forget that fact, even if you get fat.
Third: realize that truly cute/smart (science says they go together!) girls are *easier* to meet and talk to than their ugly friends, and it’s *so* much easier to call a girl the most beautiful one in the world if she really *is*.





