Anti-male snottiness is too pervasive and constant to argue with, unless you want to become a crank and a bore. It’s not really most women’s fault–they just absorb it from the culture. Few are actively malicious man-haters.
Everyone rolls their eyes when men (especially white men) compare their experience with that of other despised minorities, but whether men deserve it or not, the dynamic is the same: Everywhere a man goes he has to put up with implicit to explicit contempt, put-downs and threats that would be fighting words if directed at other groups.
Men (especially white men) do have a significant advantage that other minorities don’t: we really do run the world. Everything the misandrists do to us is because we invite them to.
To use another analogy likely to offend, men are like a parent who accepts constant bad manners and verbal abuse from a snotty teenager. Do any of us feel sorry for such parents rather than wanting to kick them in the butt?
I don’t feel sorry for men. I feel sorry, usually after the fact, for the women who try to joust with me.
