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Ask Dr. Helen: Is Male Bashing Curable?

February 21, 2008 - 1:10 am
Dennis
2008-02-21 07:16:34

If I can never do anything right then your opinion is of no value to me. It is as simple as that. When you give control to others by allowing them to affect how you feel about yourself then you need to take the time to evaluate your own understanding of your self.
There are plenty of women out there who will love you for who you are to put up with those who are so insecure that they fear your “manliness.”
I like being a Man and love Women who like being women. There are great things to be.
I spend a lot of time around women what with a wife, daughters and grand daughters. I can only remember one time when I had to say anything. Since, at times, I am the only male in the house at a family gathering the women forget that I am there. One time they were just berating men as happens and I finally said, “I will remember that the next time you need my help.” That was the last time it ever happened and there is nothing I want for when we get together.
If you want respect you have to give it and also do those things that make it possible for you to earn it. I don’t waste my time or effort on those who are so insecure that they have to put down other people. They are bigots pure and simple.
and I am not afraid to tell them. You don’t respect my opinion then I have no reason to respect yours.