The ability to split up and go it alone for women has increased in our society. So-called adult women have found a “father” in the state. A husband provides access to that “father.”
Our society is very fast-paced and impatient these days. So our relationships have become entertainment focused to help us relieve the stress of both women and men attempting to “have it all.” Like a video tape, it is much easier and simple to rent than buy for both men and women. A bad rental tape is easily returned and a new one rented without delay. A good tape, having become boring, during the second screen OR curses…the thought of having to actually get to know the actors as real people is, well, just not fun.
The dating game is now expected…who will provide that “hot’ first date? Let’s meet and talk over coffee for a few hours for our first date is not an often appreciated thought.
Of course, everyone loves to be a victim, Who wants to be left out of the special benefits of being a member of politically correct victim classes? You made me do it, you did it to me, is also very self-fulfilling and it is great to be simply right in a world of complex nuances.
In business, relationship marketing and the rolodex, has given way to the quick sell. We can even order our hot date from the internet and the projections are that your next hot date will be found on myspace. Quicker than a bar and less risky compared to those time-eating personal interactions where I might have to deal with rejection from somebody who does know or care about me, but serves as a symbol of conquest anyway.
Communication is not needed, but performance is for us adults. Well, at least until you hit 50 or 60, then it becomes fun to talk again if you still can.
What is a man? These days men are the ones that survived financially and emotionally…and believe me those men who didn’t are in the shizzzz and manliness has become cheap talk. Those men do feel and are sensitive, after all.
Being financially stretched and only sleeping with the round heels eventually loses its entertainment value as you see your health insurance rise and listen to those broken vials scattered around you, both men and women…particularly those women who talk with pride about not needing sex, if they ever did, and enjoy their all-women complaints against men roundtables and those men that, well, are all talk and no go anymore.
