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Ask Dr. Helen: Single Men in Never-Neverland

February 7, 2008 - 1:05 am - by Helen Smith
RodgerS
2008-02-07 07:40:51

Where does the state of denial of my last two wives come from who seem to love defining themselves from on high and being in a perpetual state of “right?”

The Boss!
My first ex-wife decided that she was the decision-maker and could control her husband and the relationship. Being loving and attentive in preference to applying complaints and criticism was beyond imagination.

The Workaholic!
My second ex-wife characterized the book on the Care and Feeding of Husbands as the Care and Feeding of Children. Being loving and attentive in preference to applying complaints and criticism was beyond imagination.

The I Want a Committed Partner!
My current girlfriend/spiritual wife who is loving and attentive (and expects the same from me) doesn’t follow the first two rules of my first two adult and savy women, both of which my first two wives were, as evidenced by their claims of “knowing” me and the correct and appropriate ways of dealing with and having a relationship with me.

How many men are excited about having to get divorced from their so-called adult, savy wives? The probability of getting a divorce is at least 50% by the stats I saw and at this point 67% for me by my stats.