Helen,
You are very close, but you’re still missing the mark. ” … The reward for being an adult in our society is so low, especially for men.”
It’s ONLY low for men … and that’s the trouble.
Women used to bring something to the relationship table – stability. Men brought security, women brought stability. That promoted the environment for raising a family. Women no longer bring stability – indeed, have demanded their “right” to destroy the family at their first whim, and have the man pay for it for the rest of his life.
Guess what? We don’t like that deal. So, we’re taking our marbles and going to play elsewhere. Adolescent, you say? Seems like name calling to me by the very people who set up the rules to favor themselves.
Women used to also bring sex to the table. Now, they give it to us for free on the second date, and more shockingly, to anyone for free on the internet.
Have you seen what women are doing in front of the camera lately? And the vast number of them doing it?
Women just don’t think like men. We weigh our options and do what’s in our interests. Women live in a world they constructed and believe their actions have no consequences.
It’s quite sad, really. Because I’d love to get married again and start a family with a woman I could love.
Too bad women have made that such a bad deal for me.
