I am in my mid-30′s and have been married for almost 9 years. I was fortunate to find a woman who became my best friend during our relationship, and with whom I enjoy time even without the physical/romantic piece of the relationship which has also been intrinsic to our success. While I agree that the rules are certainly set up against men, I wanted to and became married because I had a desire to raise a family, and do so at an age where I will be healthy and able when my children are in their 20′s, 30′s, and even 40′s. Not everyone agrees with me, but I believe the best and healthiest way to raise said children is within the context of a healthy marriage. I realize, however, how fortunate I have been, and that not everyone finds someone as I did. Certainly, I would not have married had I not found someone I considered to be an ideal partner.
