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Ask Dr. Helen: Can a Man Be Raped by a Woman?

June 30, 2008 - 12:06 am - by Helen Smith
Patrick Watson
2012-01-07 20:47:32

Yep it happened to me. A platonic live-in who stayed with me 3 days a week…slept in my king-size bed…a good distance from me on the other side of the bed. I did not have a guest bedroom or a spare bed. After about 6 months of living with me 3 days a week, I woke up from a sound sleep to find that my room mate had pulled my underwear down and was giving me a blow-job! I didn’t know what to think. I didn’t want that kind of a relationship with this woman. She was 47 and I was 35 at the time. So I let her do it until I came. I was not happy about this! Anyway I needed her money for some of the rent. So I continued to let her do this but I did not like it. I never had intercourse with her….until things got really bad 1.5 yrs later. I told her to move. I wasn’t happy, she wasn’t happy etc. She agreed but she said she’d need time to find a place. Additionally, she was working on her dissertation for her P.h.d. in neuro-psychology (of all things) and needed additional weeks because she couldn’t be int- erupted. Well a week later she came home in a shitty mood and I told her I’d not give her the 6 weeks to find another place to live if she was going to behave like this. I did something stupid because I was fed up. I grabbed her by the sweatshirt and physically marched her out the front door. She called the police, I went to jail over night for domestic. I was afraid she would file charges and hit me with bogus medical bills as she went to the E.R. She was absolutely fine but she was going to trump it up. She moved out but then came back 3 weeks later to get her things. I was laying on the couch after my morning shower in my robe when she came down stairs in a shirt but nothing underneath. She pulled my robe open and sat on me grinding away. I was afraid she’d hit me with the medical expenses if I refused. I kept my eyes closed and she told me to cum inside her. I obliged but reluctantly. She jumped off and went about her business moving out. I’m 6’3 250lbs. I was afraid of her. She was a counselor of all things!!!!!!