Virgin at 47? What about guys who have had dozens of women, none of which really turned them on much except the very first one who is now living in another city, childless at age 41? Once you have the virginity thing solved (with a prostitute or three), that’s just the beginning of the problem. Any “average guy” past age 35 basically doesn’t have access to the hyper-sexually liberated generation of girls who came of age as Madonna followed by Britney Spears made it the norm to go through a blatant bisexual stage, as well as have a blushingly (for use older guys) open view about things like kinky sexual variety in general.
Finally, dude, there are albeit rather expensive workshops out there (look up Badboy in Europe or BradP or Pickup101 or MysteryMethod, and log onto the site Fastseduction.com to find a decade old and growing forum of THOUSANDS of virgins, mostly age 19-25, but also stories of hundreds of guys who have studied female instinct and turned it into a populist empirical science. I used to be classically shy, albeit rather bold and debonair in the classic romantic pursuit of girlfriends, my first being at age 20. It used to take me about six months to find a new lover after each 2-3 year relationship. After a workshop or two, now it take 2-3 weeks. The biggest lesson of all, amongst hundreds of rules of thumb spread across half a dozen “schools” of womanizing? Show your desire! Do not be ashamed of showing, even indirectly with a sly smile and non-embarrassment in “checking her out,” physically. And do you know what? It’s not the girl you are shy towards. It’s the same in most primates except incestuous orgy-party Bonobos that your subconscious mind *thinks* you are being closely watched by a big fisted “alpha male” and his closest friends, so if you approach a member of their harem, you really should fear for life and limb or being kicked out of the life supporting group. Of course that is NO LONGER THE CASE IN OUR URBANIZED SOCIETIES, and it turns out, this primal ancient fear can be rather quickly extinguished by having a “Hitch” type of guru give you progressively intimidating exercises about talking to girls in the real world, and finding out that they don’t bite. At worst they might blow you off like swatting a mosquito, but only if you act timid or too round about, like 95% of most guys do.)
