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Ask Dr. Helen: The 47-Year-Old Virgin

January 23, 2008 - 12:45 am - by Helen Smith
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2008-01-23 12:44:33

Ole – don’t be so quick to dismiss “another one”‘s advice. Counselling is a good thing, but a real sex worker, as opposed to a street walker, can coach an inexperienced man in the mechanics (and if you think that “it’s all instinctual and it’ll come naturally” I pity your lovers) which will be a big confidence builder. And there’s no reason to feel either ashamed or denigrated by this sort of experience – think of all the movie stars whose name show up regularly in various madam’s “black books”. The best phrase I heard from one of those was, “I don’t pay women for sex, I pay them to go home afterwards”!