Dan
2008-01-23 10:23:28
I think the two reasons mentioned, lack of confidence or the past abuse, could both be in play. For dealing with the impact the past abuse has had, I think you seek professional help. With regard to the lack of confidence, and when the effects from the abuse are dealt with, I think that he can and should begin to study how men and women really interact. Study body language, look at what he finds attractive and see what men they date and observe such men interact with women, read the internet sites for players (don’t be a player, but copying their tactics is not bad), try different things, and see what works for him, see what does not, adjust and adapt.
