It takes a particularly slovenly mind to jump to prurient conclusions about someone’s naked habits
I would have said “shallow” mind. Some people don’t have a lot of interests or sense of self outside their own naked habits, and assume everyone else has the same empty obsession. Rather tedious….I don’t care who you “play” with, or when, or how, why should every conversation keep coming back to that? And they’re always so disappointed that I don’t care. What’s the point of being “freaky” if people aren’t freaked out?
(“Coming out” kind of reminds me of potty-training. It’s cute the first several times a kid announces he used the big-boy potty, but if he’s still announcing it when he’s a teenager, you should check for developmental delays.)





