leishman
2007-12-19 08:25:12
When my ex and I divorced, I suggested we split our assets 55% hers, 45% mine (total difference was about $150K), with no alimony. Not only was she OK with this, we divorced without lawyers involved, using a $35 handbook for our state. It was unspoken but recognized by us both that, if she wanted to contest the arrangment, she might end up with 50% and no alimony. I paid child support for two years (my remaining child was 17 when we divorced, and the second year I sent the check directly to him). My ex and I still get along, and it was in my opinion an excellent investment in the well-being of our kids.
