There seems to be a lot of good advice on this thread, but I will just add this: For heaven’s sake–do not talk to your mother about problems with your husband! Sisters too, can be problematic.
I’m not saying that if you are struggling you should not talk to anyone, ideally, talking it out with your husband would be sufficient. But a wise woman knows that once words are said, they cannot be taken back and often it is more wise to talk things through with a trusted friend who knows you and your husband (and respects both) before you have a conversation with him about a conflict. After seven years of marriage, I have learned that talking things through with a trusted friend can help me to clarify a situation without lashing out at my mate. My mother, however, is not objective and will most likely take my side. Therefore, ladies, don’t talk to your mom! She only needs to know the basics and you want her to like your husband after the fight.
