I would recommend putting off marriage until one is ready to have children. I know that a person can’t control whenever Mr. Right comes along, but I wish that I had waited, because once the kids come along, you’re in it for the long haul.
Now my husband’s a good guy, but five extra years of freedom would have been good for me. Thirty, thirty-five- that’s a good age to get married. Depending on who you are and what you do, there are guys all over. I’m in the sciences. I mountain biked on the weekends. No problem finding guys.
The basic think is just have a life and let him have his. Oh yeah, and it really helps if you make more than he does.
Deb
2007-12-05 07:53:07





