Daddy Nobucks: When Involuntary Fathers Are Forced to Foot The Bill
except for the part webutant, where peoples actions don’t becoem clear until MUCH later. So the upshot for men is pretty simple:
Assume the worst. assume that anyone you can talk into casual contact, has a reason for that. You either catch something or be caught.
Also? Just because you are envisioning something long term doesn’t mean you can know everything. Do some detective work, to make sure you aren’t being played for a patsy.
remember: cheap lovers make expensive wives.
One hopes that you yourself are above reproach in this, but that is no armor against someone who wants to target you. There are also women out there who want to be taken care of, and are willing to say anything to make it happen. Once you have a kid, the law it totally on her side…
So, verify. THEN trust.
