Pick your spouse wisely, if you decide to marry. I see that said a lot up above. Makes darned good sense.
I say this again (and again). If marriage is what you have decided upon, take a week of vacation. Spend it in the last row of your local divorce court. See for yourself how marriages end, and what happens. Take it all in. Watch the judges, the lawyers, the wives, the husbands, the in laws. I promise you will come away shaking your head.
However, if you still are not sure, the one way bus ticket to Seattle and case of beer (offered to east coasters) is still available. It is a four day bus ride. Plenty of time to think it over undisturbed. But if you STILL want to go through with it, you must pay for your own return ticket.





