Mama73,
you wrote:
“Mark,
You sound like all the boys I did my best to avoid.
There is a difference between “taking charge” and “dominating”. Likewise, do you like being told what to do? Why should any woman? Alpha males give their wives veto power (and alpha females rarely use it).”
You don’t even know what you’re talking about. You can play a little shell game with terms desribing ‘being a man’ all day, but for we as men, it’s not some cutesy-cutesy little dear Abby world we live in, where every thing is based on ‘moods.’
For us, it is deadly serious- we can go to jail for NOTHING in the context of a marriage just on the word of a woman. If we get arrested for ‘domestic violence’ (which now can be anything at all, including a cold stare or the silent treatment) we can also lose our career, the right to see our children, and our home.
There is no parallel or nothing for you, as a woman, wherein you have to deal with the same nightmarish reality, that is why it’s all la-ti-da for you. So essentially you’re just laughing at us and the horror men have to face- so screw you. You are ‘just another brick in the wall.’ Go play on iVillage.
