“The only “trick” to having a good marriage is finding the right woman to marry. Good sex is not a reason to get married. How do you know when you’ve found the right one?”
It’s cutesy-cutesy, Dear Abby-ish statements like these that make me wonder if A) Do you have ANY idea what is going on at all? B) Have you actually ever met a real live American Woman? C) What year are you living in.. 1974?
This isn’t a simple ‘character’ issue- this is a legal issue. The ‘legal’ system is now and has been completely insane. Guys, to explain how it feels to be a man nowadays to a woman, tell them to imagine if they woke up suddenly tomorrow to find out that rape is now legal. All the women would be completely freaking out, saying, “this is insane,” but then the men’s only response is, “hey, not all men are like that.” Then, just to make you feel like you’ve just entered the Twilight Zone, they ask accusingly, “hey lady, (talking to her like she’s an idiot that was born yesterday) what do you have against men anyway? You’re scary and creepy and obviously have issues that you need to get counseling on because of some past relationship problems- you know, you fit the profile of an abuser. I would never date a woman like you.”
