The Peter Pan Myth: The Real Reason Men Won’t Settle Down
Very few people really want to be alone. It’s actually quite simple (being happily married since my 20s, I speak from experience). Both men and women want someone they can enjoy. I spend a good amount of time shopping, dining, dancing and talking with my wife. Conversely, she spends time playing games (gasp, even video) and watching baseball with me. I like other things but include her where I can. I do the same for her.
Contrary to a lot of beliefs, this didn’t take a lot of work. It took nothing more than enjoying the other person. This is what we have lost. Today’s youth have standards set for them. Failure to meet those standards doesn’t allow enjoyment with anyone. You can blame it on whatever you want (men, women, isms) but in the end, it boils down to the perceptions we create and perpetuate every day. I’m taking responsibility for my child. An entire generation did not and are now wondering why they are unable to function.
