Same old story: Pay attention to that woman you wish to marry, look at her with clear and rational eyes…if possible. Communicate prior to marriage and kids.
Remember, it is the child who is really going to be hurt by a family breakup: What kid ever asked for this?
As to lawyers: They thrive on conflict, it’s the grit they live by. You’re just fresh meat for them.
As to social services: Just visit their offices and count the men versus the women working within. You’ll soon get the picture.
Bottom line: Learn how to make a better choice in mates by learning more of who you really are. If you don’t like some of the “you” then fix that first before marriage and child creation.
Then again, who ever listens when one’s pants are on fire with desire?
