My 33 year old son now THANKS me for kicking him out at 18. It was a tough day for both of us.. but, he had seemd to have no desire to leave home EVER. No plans to move!
Only by kicking him out did he have an incentive to get a job, be responsible, plan his future, care about money & learn to manage.
Now, he says if HE ever has a kid who acts the way he did, he will definitely kick him out for his own good. Even though it made him really furious when we did it to him.
His sister could not get out on her own fast enough. Totally the opposite outlook on life!
Didn’t think I spoiled him, but maybe I did.
Mom





