Ardesgain; too much is easy, if your kid can tell the difference between al of the choices on his own, then you don’t need to decide for them. A lot of times it’s just easier, in our over busy world, to just get on with the choices ourselves, so we parents don’t have to deal with the messy consequences! However as donna points out, A) the problem isn’t ours, B) the kid usually gets satisfaction from solving the resulting crisis. In todays world there isn’t time to make mistakes and then go back to try to fix them.
No room for someone to start a business, goof up and then get another chance to re-try. Anyone who succeeds immediately is great, someone who might need to re organize, or rethink something AWFUL! Look at the financial mess, quick help them fix it fix it! Oh that’s not fair they have more money than me make them split theirs…fix it
Again Donna’s right it creates socialist babies waiting for someone else to take the risk so that everyone else can profit from it. That is how the French are about everything on the surface, however if they’d lighten the social charges, most French people would love to create their own businesses…
thank you Madame Barry for this article, and re-read the article Ardsgain, it’ll make more sense eventually.
