Allison Aller
2011-10-11 09:29:38

I was dealt a knife blow through the back into my heart by a narcissistic family member a year and a half ago. She had taken turns with others, but because I had never harmed her and in fact always loved and supported her, I didn’t expect the viciousness of her attack. (I think narcissists have to have enemies and the concomitant drama.) Painfully I have learned to see that none of it was my fault except my own vulnerability. I am taking care of that business now, for sure. Belladonna, your column confirms my own process…