Masters of Manipulation: How to Spot Narcissists, and How to Deal with Them
Beautifully written. If you are using the narcissist as one man act for your party, that is fine, just remember that the show is never over for the other guests and plan accordingly. As the sibling of a narcissist, I will point out that there is another type of narcissist (maybe not as acute on the personality disorder scale) that will appear to be giving. They will show up at your house with gifts: a special and unique food; the best available travel book for your upcoming trip) or some other grand entrance that assures that they are to be congratulated. Just remember, these are not gifts, these are “props”. The book on travel is nothing more than an opportunity to show they are an expert on the subject and to talk about their own trip. The special dish will have a story for them to tell. “Isn’t it grand, and by extension, aren’t I grand?”
Often they will plan fun group events, and thus both hold the keys to control of the group, but also assure that they are always included and in the center of the mix.
Yes, they can make for interesting party guests and can provide some great memories. But the best advice I can give is: quickly, quietly ….run away!
