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Ask Dr. Helen: Doing Unto Others

July 31, 2007 - 12:43 am - by Helen Smith
DRJ
2007-08-04 18:14:23

Is it the altruistic act itself that enhances self-esteem or is it more important that the actor makes sure his/her altruistic action is known to others? I think one way to determine whether a person’s motives are due to altruism or self-interest is to determine whether the actor makes sure other people learn of his/her good deeds. In other words, do you act altruistically when you know you won’t get credit or adulation for doing so.

I believe people often act altruistically. We do so in large ways and small – when we put up our carts at the grocery store so it’s easier for the next guy; when we put cash or change in the Salvation Army bin or the collection plate even if no one is there to see us do it; or when we stop to help auto accident victims on a remote highway.

To me, the more interesting question is “Why do some people seemingly want to discredit the concept that people are altruistic?”