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Ask Dr. Helen: Doing Unto Others

July 31, 2007 - 12:43 am - by Helen Smith
Matt
2007-08-01 14:21:18

I must pose a dissagreement with the analysis of said sperm donor, see the reason why he was able to impregnate so many women WAS by being a scumbag.

see, women get hit on EVERY day whether they want to or not… they CANNOT take themselves out of this game.

They think they want a nice guy to sweep them off their feet, but when the nice guy approaches them and says “ohmygod! your soooo beautiful – let me take you out” they say to themselves “great… another needy wuss”

but if a guy comes up, who appears to reject social norms and says something smart-ass, he stands out from the HUNDREDS of needy guys that approached the girl this week… her curriosity is piqued!

i’ve seen MANY non needy, self respecting women (who don’t have daddy issues) go after guys with tatoos and prison reccords for this very reason – they’re sick of mr. let-me-buy-you-a-drink-and-compliment-you-so-you-might-go-home-with-me-when-you-see-how-sweet-i-am

it’s simply, women want adventure and excitement and someone that’s going to help them learn something new about themselves… not more of the same boring normal reality.

but adverturousness can be mistaken for dangerousness and the poor girl ends up with a scumbag instead of the nice guy.