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Ask Dr. Helen: Doing Unto Others

July 31, 2007 - 12:43 am - by Helen Smith
Josh
2007-07-31 09:00:24

I remember a conversation I had with a friend on this one. He said, “Everything we do, we do for ourselves.”

I tried to dis-prove his comment. And I lost.

When it comes down to it, I am motivated by guilt, happiness, love, impulse, or morals ingrained in ME. I might feel empathy for somebody else’s plight, but I react to that because in the end, it sates a feeling I have in myself.

If we were un-affected by those feelings, and an expected emotional reaction, then I think we would have little incentive to do something about an external situation.

Josh