Please read my post again.
Yes, this guy may be warm and kind ACTING but he’s also clearly a con man. I know you have trouble reconciling what you met and what you felt with what has been exposed about him. You are making the single biggest mistake that lets people be conned by a sociopath, and that is that you assume that he like you and I. He isn’t. People like this can be warm and charming and yet can still steal you blind. They even do nice things sometimes. They have no guilt to trip them up. This is why they are such good liars.
Read the book, “The Sociopath Next Door.”
Until you have dealt with one of these snakes, you won’t believe that that anyone could fall for such a habitual, proven liar. These people can talk their way out of anything. That is until you realize that they are missing the very thing that makes us all human – compassion, the ability to love, and a conscience.
A sociopath has no conscience.





