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		<title>By: No Sisterhood in Islam &#171; ACT Northern Virginia/Richmond/DC Metro Chapter. Dedicated to the Defense of our freedom from Islamic Ideology.</title>
		<link>http://pjmedia.com/blog/common-sense-and-double-standards-in-campus-rape-myth/#comment-224188</link>
		<dc:creator>No Sisterhood in Islam &#171; ACT Northern Virginia/Richmond/DC Metro Chapter. Dedicated to the Defense of our freedom from Islamic Ideology.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Mar 2009 06:43:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] be safe if they accept their lot. With less excuse, even some intelligent Western women such as Heather Mac Donald believe that good girls don’t get raped. This idea is undermined above all by Muslim rape [...]</description>
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		<title>By: E.B</title>
		<link>http://pjmedia.com/blog/common-sense-and-double-standards-in-campus-rape-myth/#comment-80220</link>
		<dc:creator>E.B</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Jul 2008 18:56:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>mylai:

So tell me, why the use of the word “bimbo?” What is your definition of bimbo? 

Are you so insecure that your getting bent out of shape because someone used a pejorative term designated for women? Does it make you feel like a victim? (of course  it does).

&quot;That is exactly what this article is about.&quot;

No, this article about a fridge, middle aged harpy with a martyr complex trying to get back at MacDonald for &quot;double standers&quot;.

&quot;What exactly would you call a male version of bimbo?&quot;

A Mimbo.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>mylai:</p>
<p>So tell me, why the use of the word “bimbo?” What is your definition of bimbo? </p>
<p>Are you so insecure that your getting bent out of shape because someone used a pejorative term designated for women? Does it make you feel like a victim? (of course  it does).</p>
<p>&#8220;That is exactly what this article is about.&#8221;</p>
<p>No, this article about a fridge, middle aged harpy with a martyr complex trying to get back at MacDonald for &#8220;double standers&#8221;.</p>
<p>&#8220;What exactly would you call a male version of bimbo?&#8221;</p>
<p>A Mimbo.</p>
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		<title>By: E.B</title>
		<link>http://pjmedia.com/blog/common-sense-and-double-standards-in-campus-rape-myth/#comment-80214</link>
		<dc:creator>E.B</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Jul 2008 18:38:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mary Martyr:

&quot;But MacDonald’s purse-lipped admonitions are not directed at men. Nowhere in her article does she suggest that men should chaange, or, to play along with her hypothetical scenario, that they should be told to change by “rape industrialists.” Women must change, restrain themselves, and not get drunk in order to avoid being raped — sorry, “raped”. But men need not modify their behavior in order to avoid raping. 

Men don&#039;t get hammered, have sex and call it rape, so I&#039;m not sure what would be the point of &quot;purse-lipped admonitions&quot; directed at men.

&quot;Boys will be boys — they just can’t help it.&quot;

Is it possible for a feminist to critique an article without gross exaggeration?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mary Martyr:</p>
<p>&#8220;But MacDonald’s purse-lipped admonitions are not directed at men. Nowhere in her article does she suggest that men should chaange, or, to play along with her hypothetical scenario, that they should be told to change by “rape industrialists.” Women must change, restrain themselves, and not get drunk in order to avoid being raped — sorry, “raped”. But men need not modify their behavior in order to avoid raping. </p>
<p>Men don&#8217;t get hammered, have sex and call it rape, so I&#8217;m not sure what would be the point of &#8220;purse-lipped admonitions&#8221; directed at men.</p>
<p>&#8220;Boys will be boys — they just can’t help it.&#8221;</p>
<p>Is it possible for a feminist to critique an article without gross exaggeration?</p>
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		<title>By: E.B</title>
		<link>http://pjmedia.com/blog/common-sense-and-double-standards-in-campus-rape-myth/#comment-80201</link>
		<dc:creator>E.B</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Jul 2008 18:18:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mary Martyr:

&quot;But MacDonald’s purse-lipped admonitions are not directed at men. Nowhere in her article does she suggest that men should change, or, to play along with her hypothetical scenario, that they should be told to change by “rape industrialists.” Women must change, restrain themselves, and not get drunk in order to avoid being raped — sorry, “raped”. But men need not modify their behavior in order to avoid raping. 

Men don&#039;t get hammered, have sex and call it rape, so I&#039;m not sure what would be the point of &quot;purse-lipped admonitions&quot; directed at men.

&quot;Boys will be boys — they just can’t help it.&quot;

Is it possible for a feminist to critique an article without gross exaggeration?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mary Martyr:</p>
<p>&#8220;But MacDonald’s purse-lipped admonitions are not directed at men. Nowhere in her article does she suggest that men should change, or, to play along with her hypothetical scenario, that they should be told to change by “rape industrialists.” Women must change, restrain themselves, and not get drunk in order to avoid being raped — sorry, “raped”. But men need not modify their behavior in order to avoid raping. </p>
<p>Men don&#8217;t get hammered, have sex and call it rape, so I&#8217;m not sure what would be the point of &#8220;purse-lipped admonitions&#8221; directed at men.</p>
<p>&#8220;Boys will be boys — they just can’t help it.&#8221;</p>
<p>Is it possible for a feminist to critique an article without gross exaggeration?</p>
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		<title>By: Tristan Phillips</title>
		<link>http://pjmedia.com/blog/common-sense-and-double-standards-in-campus-rape-myth/#comment-67579</link>
		<dc:creator>Tristan Phillips</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Jul 2008 23:13:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Such a hateful little woman. After reading your sexist, bigotted comments here:

http://pajamasmedia.com/blog/ask-dr-helen-can-a-man-be-raped-by-a-woman/2/

You&#039;re either a drive-by troll or a vindictive man-hating woman. Too bad people pay to listen to your bile.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Such a hateful little woman. After reading your sexist, bigotted comments here:</p>
<p><a href="http://pajamasmedia.com/blog/ask-dr-helen-can-a-man-be-raped-by-a-woman/2/" rel="nofollow">http://pajamasmedia.com/blog/ask-dr-helen-can-a-man-be-raped-by-a-woman/2/</a></p>
<p>You&#8217;re either a drive-by troll or a vindictive man-hating woman. Too bad people pay to listen to your bile.</p>
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		<title>By: Bozoer Rebbe</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bozoer Rebbe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jun 2008 18:41:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;I&gt;Mary Jackson:

Dear, oh dear. You men have no sense of humour. Must be the hormones.&lt;/i&gt;

Do you laugh at cartoons of women with sagging breasts? Are hysterectomies funny?

You attempted to make a joke about men and small penises and then deliberately used the word &quot;cut&quot;, most likely because you think men have castration complexes and you wanted to dig the knife in deper. 

It would be nice if you misandrists would get some new material. When pressed, many anti-male women resort to calling men &quot;little boys&quot; or make fun of their penis.

Does your obsession with size mean that you require a particularly large penis to be satisfied? Over 90% of men have penises that are less than 8&quot; long and self-reporting surveys show that most women find 6 to 6.5 inches &quot;ideal&quot;. If a &quot;small&quot; penis isn&#039;t enough for you, you&#039;re the one with the problem.

Oh, and Mary, when was the last time you had consensual sex with a man?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>Mary Jackson:</p>
<p>Dear, oh dear. You men have no sense of humour. Must be the hormones.</i></p>
<p>Do you laugh at cartoons of women with sagging breasts? Are hysterectomies funny?</p>
<p>You attempted to make a joke about men and small penises and then deliberately used the word &#8220;cut&#8221;, most likely because you think men have castration complexes and you wanted to dig the knife in deper. </p>
<p>It would be nice if you misandrists would get some new material. When pressed, many anti-male women resort to calling men &#8220;little boys&#8221; or make fun of their penis.</p>
<p>Does your obsession with size mean that you require a particularly large penis to be satisfied? Over 90% of men have penises that are less than 8&#8243; long and self-reporting surveys show that most women find 6 to 6.5 inches &#8220;ideal&#8221;. If a &#8220;small&#8221; penis isn&#8217;t enough for you, you&#8217;re the one with the problem.</p>
<p>Oh, and Mary, when was the last time you had consensual sex with a man?</p>
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		<title>By: Snoop Diggity-DANG-Dawg</title>
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		<dc:creator>Snoop Diggity-DANG-Dawg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Apr 2008 15:38:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mary Jackson&#039;s belly button: stop staring at me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mary Jackson&#8217;s belly button: stop staring at me.</p>
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		<title>By: Pajamas Media &#187; Blog Archive &#187; A Woeful Misreading of &#8216;Campus Rape Myth&#8217;</title>
		<link>http://pjmedia.com/blog/common-sense-and-double-standards-in-campus-rape-myth/#comment-32182</link>
		<dc:creator>Pajamas Media &#187; Blog Archive &#187; A Woeful Misreading of &#8216;Campus Rape Myth&#8217;</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Apr 2008 07:01:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...]  Mary Jackson accused me of using double standards to condemn women&#039;s sexual behavior. Not true. Here&#039;s why.   April 24, 2008 - by Heather Mac Donald [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...]  Mary Jackson accused me of using double standards to condemn women&#8217;s sexual behavior. Not true. Here&#8217;s why.   April 24, 2008 &#8211; by Heather Mac Donald [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Keldin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Keldin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Apr 2008 18:42:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As a man with three daughters, I am very concerned about the possibility they might get raped at some point in the future.  That said, I think the fact that a double standard exists against men should also be brought up.  Women&#039;s lives are rarely ruined by false accusations of rape.  Men&#039;s are.  I would say that BOTH double standards need to come down.

And for the record, I come from a religious culture that tells people of both genders to control their behaviour, not just the females.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As a man with three daughters, I am very concerned about the possibility they might get raped at some point in the future.  That said, I think the fact that a double standard exists against men should also be brought up.  Women&#8217;s lives are rarely ruined by false accusations of rape.  Men&#8217;s are.  I would say that BOTH double standards need to come down.</p>
<p>And for the record, I come from a religious culture that tells people of both genders to control their behaviour, not just the females.</p>
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		<title>By: mylai</title>
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		<dc:creator>mylai</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Apr 2008 05:29:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;Women have all the control in normal sexual encounters they can deny or agree. If they want to be not called tramps then that is within their control.&quot;

So then it is your absolute right to call a girl a tramp, bimbo, whore, etc., if she exercises her sexuality? How old and tired. Yes, we DO have control over when and with whom we choose to have sex. Or if we rather not have it at all. Sadly there are some girls who don&#039;t quite see the ignorance and envy behind the callers of such words. I&#039;ve always suspected men and some nasty women will always try to control what they cannot have, through either force or name calling. Sad.

I am gratefull that the American Justice system has the laws to protect women that exists today that didn&#039;t exist yesterday. In that way it DOES even the playing field. &quot;Nice&quot; girls and bad girls both, get raped. As we&#039;ve all read in any number of cases, the girl in the burqa is raped just as easily and frequently as the girl dressed in less. So basically this name-called holds little substance. No longer can a woman&#039;s sexual promiscuity be a defence of the rapist, because the law sees that a woman truly does have the same right of sexual pleasure as do men. As long as the courts have caught up and have a clue, I frankly couldn&#039;t give a damn whether an idiot with a limited vocabulary and a double standard doesn&#039;t.  

&quot;Why should a male who wants sex anyway he can get it feel bad if women foolishly allows themselves to give sex because they decided to get wasted?&quot; 

No, he shouldn&#039;t feel bad. Not if the sex was consentual. He should feel fright, however, if it wasn&#039;t. Since the courts know full well and readily acknowledge &quot;males wants sex anyway he can get it,&quot; it&#039;ll remain  the woman&#039;s words against his in the majority of date rape case.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Women have all the control in normal sexual encounters they can deny or agree. If they want to be not called tramps then that is within their control.&#8221;</p>
<p>So then it is your absolute right to call a girl a tramp, bimbo, whore, etc., if she exercises her sexuality? How old and tired. Yes, we DO have control over when and with whom we choose to have sex. Or if we rather not have it at all. Sadly there are some girls who don&#8217;t quite see the ignorance and envy behind the callers of such words. I&#8217;ve always suspected men and some nasty women will always try to control what they cannot have, through either force or name calling. Sad.</p>
<p>I am gratefull that the American Justice system has the laws to protect women that exists today that didn&#8217;t exist yesterday. In that way it DOES even the playing field. &#8220;Nice&#8221; girls and bad girls both, get raped. As we&#8217;ve all read in any number of cases, the girl in the burqa is raped just as easily and frequently as the girl dressed in less. So basically this name-called holds little substance. No longer can a woman&#8217;s sexual promiscuity be a defence of the rapist, because the law sees that a woman truly does have the same right of sexual pleasure as do men. As long as the courts have caught up and have a clue, I frankly couldn&#8217;t give a damn whether an idiot with a limited vocabulary and a double standard doesn&#8217;t.  </p>
<p>&#8220;Why should a male who wants sex anyway he can get it feel bad if women foolishly allows themselves to give sex because they decided to get wasted?&#8221; </p>
<p>No, he shouldn&#8217;t feel bad. Not if the sex was consentual. He should feel fright, however, if it wasn&#8217;t. Since the courts know full well and readily acknowledge &#8220;males wants sex anyway he can get it,&#8221; it&#8217;ll remain  the woman&#8217;s words against his in the majority of date rape case.</p>
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