Christmas Shopping in a Time of Recession
How do we teach our kids "the real meaning of Christmas" in a world where Wal-Mart shoppers can trample a man to death?
November 27, 2008 - 10:50 am
UPDATE: So much for fighting materialism.
As Black Friday dawned on Long Island, 2,000 shoppers waited in line outside a Wal-Mart in Valley Stream, New York. The anticipation of low-priced flat screen televisions and children’s games too much for them, they pushed and shoved their way past the locked doors before the store even opened. In the ensuing madness, a temporary Wal-Mart worker, a 34-year-old man, was trampled. As he lay on the ground, the bargain crazed shoppers stomped over him, and continued to shop even as the shocked Wal-Mart workers tried to get them to leave the store.
Is this what Christmas has come to be? Have the media and society in general turned us into such consumerists that we eschew any sense of human decency in order to save fifty dollars off a flat screen monitor? As someone on Twitter said: “Dear Jesus, We honor the memory of your miraculous birth by offering you this sacrifice, a 34-year-old temporary Wal-Mart employee. Amen”
Christmas has become indistinguishable from all the other “Big Sale” holidays that have lost all meaning: Washington’s Birthday, Memorial Day, Fourth of July. Every holiday is just another day to spend more, buy more, and fill our lives with clutter and our desk drawers with bills.
It’s time to step back and think about what’s important to us. Is saving fifty dollars worth the life of a man? Is Christmas going to have any more meaning because you stood outside in the cold for five hours so you can get the sale price on that bike for your kid? No. It’s not.
And what happened at that Wal-Mart on Long Island today is all the more reason to pay close attention to the message you send your children as to what Christmas is about.
(The article below was published before the stampede.)
Everyone knows the real meaning of the holidays, but we are all aware of what holiday season — and Christmas in particular — has become.
It’s a weeks-long festival of commercialism and materialism. It’s a constant barrage of ads reminding us that our spouses are waiting for that very special gift and our kids are expecting a bagful of toys. It’s the time of year when parents fight in the aisles of Wal-Mart for that last “must-have” toy, when we become stressed and short tempered, turning mall parking lots into battlefields.
Times are tough. The economy is looking bleak. But it’s Christmas time, and Christmas time is spending time, right? What happens when we can’t spend like we used to? What becomes of Christmas when our wallets are thin and our credit is stretched to its limits? What will we tell the kids?
We could start by telling our kids no. Sure, a lot of us already do that, but let’s face it: we live in a time of overindulgence. Kids with expensive Macbooks and iPods. Kids who freak out at the thought of not wearing clothes emblazoned with the most elite company logos. When children are used to expecting more, and we’re used to buying more, it’s hard to suddenly stop the tradition of Christmas overindulgence.
Perhaps now is a good time to have a talk with our children about the economy. Now is a good time to take Christmas back.
We can ask ourselves and ask our family members: What does Christmas mean to you? What would it be without the mall Santas and stack of bills? Why does it have to be about presents, whether giving or receiving?
Perhaps the downturn in the economy could be taken advantage of. We could all use this opportunity to turn Christmas from a time of greed and stress to a more traditional time of family, love, and peace.