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		<title>By: Helen Smith</title>
		<link>http://pjmedia.com/blog/ask_dr_helen_the_unfair_sex/#comment-23603</link>
		<dc:creator>Helen Smith</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Feb 2008 14:18:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Not a guy,

Good for you, I think many women use male bashing as a way to connect with other women, but there are plenty of ways to do that without resorting to trashing men!
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<p>Good for you, I think many women use male bashing as a way to connect with other women, but there are plenty of ways to do that without resorting to trashing men!</p>
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		<title>By: Not a guy</title>
		<link>http://pjmedia.com/blog/ask_dr_helen_the_unfair_sex/#comment-23602</link>
		<dc:creator>Not a guy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Feb 2008 03:40:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Doc Helen - I know my comment is late but this is an important subject. When my friends start male bashing, I tell them, &quot;Sorry, but I like men. I think they&#039;re fun and sexy and I like being around them. You can male bash all you want but count me out.&quot; Nobody says much but the conversation usually changes. I&#039;ve been doing this for years and it does make a difference.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Doc Helen &#8211; I know my comment is late but this is an important subject. When my friends start male bashing, I tell them, &#8220;Sorry, but I like men. I think they&#8217;re fun and sexy and I like being around them. You can male bash all you want but count me out.&#8221; Nobody says much but the conversation usually changes. I&#8217;ve been doing this for years and it does make a difference.</p>
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		<title>By: Little_much</title>
		<link>http://pjmedia.com/blog/ask_dr_helen_the_unfair_sex/#comment-23601</link>
		<dc:creator>Little_much</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Feb 2008 18:39:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I can think of some lacrosse players in Durham, NC who might disagree with you on that point.

&quot;Any woman can ruin any man&#039;s life -- permanently -- whenever she wants to. All she has to do is point at him and say the magic word: RAPE. Men live with the knowledge that this can be done to us at any time and there is nothing we can do about it.

If that is not oppression, what is?&quot;

That&#039;s odd, I thought everyone had the right to a trial to prove their innocence in this country. I am very happy they were acquited, the prosecutor disbarred and now stand to make a few dollars in possible punitive damages.

Let&#039;s face facts: men rape and men harras and men kill a bit more often than your female counterparts do likewise.

That being an irrefutable fact, ask yourself about the female student body at the Reno University or any University for that matter where there has been a REAL rape about the daily fear they have to live in with a rapist/killer stalking their University. When as a human being you have to look over your shoulder at every minute. Let&#039;s be real for a moment if you&#039;d like to talk about oppression? Try that one on for size. Not only do girls have to worry about which male student might go gun happy and shoot the campus up but they also have to worry about assault, rape, being murdered and dumped in a ditch, shallow grave, ocean in Aruba and so on.

I&#039;m sure Brianna Denison was asking for it by sleeping in a room where the door was unlocked.

Today&#039;s men doth protest WAAAY too much. This article is hilarious at best. Jeez fellas, come on please grow up.




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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can think of some lacrosse players in Durham, NC who might disagree with you on that point.</p>
<p>&#8220;Any woman can ruin any man&#8217;s life &#8212; permanently &#8212; whenever she wants to. All she has to do is point at him and say the magic word: RAPE. Men live with the knowledge that this can be done to us at any time and there is nothing we can do about it.</p>
<p>If that is not oppression, what is?&#8221;</p>
<p>That&#8217;s odd, I thought everyone had the right to a trial to prove their innocence in this country. I am very happy they were acquited, the prosecutor disbarred and now stand to make a few dollars in possible punitive damages.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s face facts: men rape and men harras and men kill a bit more often than your female counterparts do likewise.</p>
<p>That being an irrefutable fact, ask yourself about the female student body at the Reno University or any University for that matter where there has been a REAL rape about the daily fear they have to live in with a rapist/killer stalking their University. When as a human being you have to look over your shoulder at every minute. Let&#8217;s be real for a moment if you&#8217;d like to talk about oppression? Try that one on for size. Not only do girls have to worry about which male student might go gun happy and shoot the campus up but they also have to worry about assault, rape, being murdered and dumped in a ditch, shallow grave, ocean in Aruba and so on.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m sure Brianna Denison was asking for it by sleeping in a room where the door was unlocked.</p>
<p>Today&#8217;s men doth protest WAAAY too much. This article is hilarious at best. Jeez fellas, come on please grow up.</p>
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		<title>By: Nicodemus</title>
		<link>http://pjmedia.com/blog/ask_dr_helen_the_unfair_sex/#comment-23600</link>
		<dc:creator>Nicodemus</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Feb 2008 17:25:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;&quot;Men are NOT &#039;oppressed&#039; in the West. Seriously, guys. You need to chill.&quot;&lt;/i&gt;



I can think of some lacrosse players in Durham, NC who might disagree with you on that point.



Any woman can ruin any man&#039;s life -- &lt;i&gt;permanently&lt;/i&gt; -- whenever she wants to. All she has to do is point at him and say the magic word: RAPE. Men live with the knowledge that this can be done to us at any time and there is nothing we can do about it.



If that is not oppression, what is?
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>&#8220;Men are NOT &#8216;oppressed&#8217; in the West. Seriously, guys. You need to chill.&#8221;</i></p>
<p>I can think of some lacrosse players in Durham, NC who might disagree with you on that point.</p>
<p>Any woman can ruin any man&#8217;s life &#8212; <i>permanently</i> &#8212; whenever she wants to. All she has to do is point at him and say the magic word: RAPE. Men live with the knowledge that this can be done to us at any time and there is nothing we can do about it.</p>
<p>If that is not oppression, what is?</p>
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		<title>By: Yaakov Watkins</title>
		<link>http://pjmedia.com/blog/ask_dr_helen_the_unfair_sex/#comment-23599</link>
		<dc:creator>Yaakov Watkins</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Feb 2008 06:48:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Greg
I am perfectly serious.  People become the person you treat them as.  Not 100%, but enough so it is a good strategy for interaction.

The zero-sum model for marriage doesn&#039;t work.  A couple can become more than the sum of their single personas.

I am unashamedly male.  I am definitely not a metro-sexual. Nor am I groveling at the alter of feminist politics.  I managed to get a brilliant woman to support me while I stayed home with my children.  I am now pursuing my dreams.

Let her know she is loved, respected, and appreciated and she&#039;ll put up with almost anything.  If you support her being unreasonable, she&#039;ll support you being unreasonable.  Isn&#039;t getting what you want more important than winning a battle neither of you wants to fight?

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Greg<br />
I am perfectly serious.  People become the person you treat them as.  Not 100%, but enough so it is a good strategy for interaction.</p>
<p>The zero-sum model for marriage doesn&#8217;t work.  A couple can become more than the sum of their single personas.</p>
<p>I am unashamedly male.  I am definitely not a metro-sexual. Nor am I groveling at the alter of feminist politics.  I managed to get a brilliant woman to support me while I stayed home with my children.  I am now pursuing my dreams.</p>
<p>Let her know she is loved, respected, and appreciated and she&#8217;ll put up with almost anything.  If you support her being unreasonable, she&#8217;ll support you being unreasonable.  Isn&#8217;t getting what you want more important than winning a battle neither of you wants to fight?</p>
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		<title>By: Fontessa</title>
		<link>http://pjmedia.com/blog/ask_dr_helen_the_unfair_sex/#comment-23598</link>
		<dc:creator>Fontessa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Feb 2008 03:57:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well I love men---long and tall, short and small. I thank God for testosterone.

Everyone here needs to take some time out and go read about the Texas Revolution. Now there were some men!

The siege of the Alamo began on this date, and all those men knew it would be a fight to the death. By March 6 they would all be dead, and by April 21, Texas would be free.

Thank God we still have some men today, who could stand with the men from the Alamo.


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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well I love men&#8212;long and tall, short and small. I thank God for testosterone.</p>
<p>Everyone here needs to take some time out and go read about the Texas Revolution. Now there were some men!</p>
<p>The siege of the Alamo began on this date, and all those men knew it would be a fight to the death. By March 6 they would all be dead, and by April 21, Texas would be free.</p>
<p>Thank God we still have some men today, who could stand with the men from the Alamo.</p>
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		<title>By: DJ</title>
		<link>http://pjmedia.com/blog/ask_dr_helen_the_unfair_sex/#comment-23597</link>
		<dc:creator>DJ</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Feb 2008 01:41:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>For the women who feel perfectly entitled to sneer at men, condemn all men, express their hostility with hateful gossip or fists.  Try this experiment.  Take out the word men and substitute the word &#039;N*****s&#039;.  Thats what the most of the country was like just seventy years ago.  &#039;Men/N*&#039; are just animals!&#039; . . &#039;Men/N*&#039; can&#039;t take care of themselves&#039;. . . .   &#039;Men/N* need someone to take care of them.&#039; It&#039;s not just disrespect, it&#039;s active hostility.

For the people who think it&#039;s a problem for future generations, it&#039;s too late.  The future is here already.  There are now a great many men in their forties who were raised by angry, single women.  They&#039;ve spent the first half of their lives being indoctrinated, being trained, being propagandized in institutions that are dominated by angry women.  Grade school, high school, college and university, all dominated by feminists and progressives.  Boys who act up, who don&#039;t spend seven hours a day sitting passively, they&#039;ll get &#039;medicated&#039; to calm them down.  Boys who talk back will be &#039;rewarded&#039; with all the sarcasm and hostility a teacher carries in her own emotional baggage. Teaching is a job that allows angry women to punish young men, every single day.  Maybe that&#039;s why so many men now choose to avoid any permanent commitments to a woman.

To answer your question, is man-bashing curable.  I think it&#039;s too late.  Man-bashing has become deeply institutionalized.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For the women who feel perfectly entitled to sneer at men, condemn all men, express their hostility with hateful gossip or fists.  Try this experiment.  Take out the word men and substitute the word &#8216;N*****s&#8217;.  Thats what the most of the country was like just seventy years ago.  &#8216;Men/N*&#8217; are just animals!&#8217; . . &#8216;Men/N*&#8217; can&#8217;t take care of themselves&#8217;. . . .   &#8216;Men/N* need someone to take care of them.&#8217; It&#8217;s not just disrespect, it&#8217;s active hostility.</p>
<p>For the people who think it&#8217;s a problem for future generations, it&#8217;s too late.  The future is here already.  There are now a great many men in their forties who were raised by angry, single women.  They&#8217;ve spent the first half of their lives being indoctrinated, being trained, being propagandized in institutions that are dominated by angry women.  Grade school, high school, college and university, all dominated by feminists and progressives.  Boys who act up, who don&#8217;t spend seven hours a day sitting passively, they&#8217;ll get &#8216;medicated&#8217; to calm them down.  Boys who talk back will be &#8216;rewarded&#8217; with all the sarcasm and hostility a teacher carries in her own emotional baggage. Teaching is a job that allows angry women to punish young men, every single day.  Maybe that&#8217;s why so many men now choose to avoid any permanent commitments to a woman.</p>
<p>To answer your question, is man-bashing curable.  I think it&#8217;s too late.  Man-bashing has become deeply institutionalized.</p>
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		<title>By: Mylai</title>
		<link>http://pjmedia.com/blog/ask_dr_helen_the_unfair_sex/#comment-23596</link>
		<dc:creator>Mylai</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Feb 2008 22:24:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Andrew,

That would depend on who actually bashed, who first wouldn&#039;t it?
and i quote from &quot;Don&#039;t Do It&quot;: &quot;but dimbulbs like you...&quot; which wasn&#039;t necessary.

Now I don&#039;t consider myself a victim because sticks and stones and all the rest of that...nonetheless, I WOULD consider Mr. Don&#039;t Do It, to be an ill-mannered and probably ill-tempered man for having so quickly sunk to being insulting.

Perhaps that, in and of itself, feeds in one of the stereotypes named in the 1st paragraph of this article? Abusive?

Some men simply are, some men simply are not. Same to be said for women.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Andrew,</p>
<p>That would depend on who actually bashed, who first wouldn&#8217;t it?<br />
and i quote from &#8220;Don&#8217;t Do It&#8221;: &#8220;but dimbulbs like you&#8230;&#8221; which wasn&#8217;t necessary.</p>
<p>Now I don&#8217;t consider myself a victim because sticks and stones and all the rest of that&#8230;nonetheless, I WOULD consider Mr. Don&#8217;t Do It, to be an ill-mannered and probably ill-tempered man for having so quickly sunk to being insulting.</p>
<p>Perhaps that, in and of itself, feeds in one of the stereotypes named in the 1st paragraph of this article? Abusive?</p>
<p>Some men simply are, some men simply are not. Same to be said for women.</p>
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		<title>By: Andrew</title>
		<link>http://pjmedia.com/blog/ask_dr_helen_the_unfair_sex/#comment-23595</link>
		<dc:creator>Andrew</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Feb 2008 20:34:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;And seriously, calm down, if your comments toward posters are any indication of the way you communicate in the non-internet world, I wouldn&#039;t be surprised if you are bashed. Maybe it&#039;s men such as yourself who are to blame for said bashings.&quot;



Isn&#039;t the term for this &quot;blaming the victim&quot;?



I think part of the problem lies rooted in the inability of some to believe that women carry their own share of human inadequacy. For many, it remains an item of faith that if a woman does something wrong, a man has made her do it.



The stand-up comics are all wrong; women understand men scarcely better than men women. Communication is confused by the different goals of communicating as well as by the different weight placed on individual words. The result is chaos unless specific care is made to be charitable to one another. This charity is lacking on both sides, it&#039;s just more socially acceptable for one and not the other.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;And seriously, calm down, if your comments toward posters are any indication of the way you communicate in the non-internet world, I wouldn&#8217;t be surprised if you are bashed. Maybe it&#8217;s men such as yourself who are to blame for said bashings.&#8221;</p>
<p>Isn&#8217;t the term for this &#8220;blaming the victim&#8221;?</p>
<p>I think part of the problem lies rooted in the inability of some to believe that women carry their own share of human inadequacy. For many, it remains an item of faith that if a woman does something wrong, a man has made her do it.</p>
<p>The stand-up comics are all wrong; women understand men scarcely better than men women. Communication is confused by the different goals of communicating as well as by the different weight placed on individual words. The result is chaos unless specific care is made to be charitable to one another. This charity is lacking on both sides, it&#8217;s just more socially acceptable for one and not the other.</p>
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		<title>By: Mylai</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mylai</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Feb 2008 00:30:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>dont do it:

You are quite a severely agitated man aren&#039;t you. Perhaps from too much bashing.

I could care less about the &quot;feminists&quot; you seem to think is at the root of all the evil in your life.

It&#039;s regular everyday women, who outnumber the shrill die-hard feminists, who are unaffiliated with the NOW organization who will (along with like-thinking western men) step up to see that such foolishness (sharia) never sees the light of day.

The Archbishop in the UK is a complete idiot. And if you&#039;ve been paying close attention you would see that there has been an amazing uproar and backlash. The story there is not ended.

And seriously, calm down, if your comments toward posters are any indication of the way you communicate in the non-internet world, I wouldn&#039;t be surprised if you are bashed. Maybe it&#039;s men such as yourself who are to blame for said bashings.

good day :)
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>dont do it:</p>
<p>You are quite a severely agitated man aren&#8217;t you. Perhaps from too much bashing.</p>
<p>I could care less about the &#8220;feminists&#8221; you seem to think is at the root of all the evil in your life.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s regular everyday women, who outnumber the shrill die-hard feminists, who are unaffiliated with the NOW organization who will (along with like-thinking western men) step up to see that such foolishness (sharia) never sees the light of day.</p>
<p>The Archbishop in the UK is a complete idiot. And if you&#8217;ve been paying close attention you would see that there has been an amazing uproar and backlash. The story there is not ended.</p>
<p>And seriously, calm down, if your comments toward posters are any indication of the way you communicate in the non-internet world, I wouldn&#8217;t be surprised if you are bashed. Maybe it&#8217;s men such as yourself who are to blame for said bashings.</p>
<p>good day <img src='http://pjmedia.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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