Comments on: Ask Dr. Helen: Can a Man Be Raped by a Woman?

By: Snoop-Diggity-DANG-Dawg

Snoop-Diggity-DANG-Dawg — Mon, 16 Jan 2012 15:39:44 +0000

“…she was working on her dissertation for her P.h.d. in neuro-psychology (of all things)… Well a week later she came home in a shitty mood… I did something stupid… I grabbed her by the sweatshirt and physically marched her out the front door. She called the police, I went to jail over night for domestic.”

Mr. Watson, I’d like to introduce you Mr. James Lamdrith.

Patrick…James. James…Patrick.

Apparently you gentlemen were separated at birth.

By: billy williams

billy williams — Wed, 11 Jan 2012 06:08:57 +0000

My goodness patrick,that’s awful. I hope you’ll be all right,My Thoughts are with you my friend.

By: Patrick Watson

Patrick Watson — Sun, 08 Jan 2012 04:47:32 +0000

Yep it happened to me. A platonic live-in who stayed with me 3 days a week…slept in my king-size bed…a good distance from me on the other side of the bed. I did not have a guest bedroom or a spare bed. After about 6 months of living with me 3 days a week, I woke up from a sound sleep to find that my room mate had pulled my underwear down and was giving me a blow-job! I didn’t know what to think. I didn’t want that kind of a relationship with this woman. She was 47 and I was 35 at the time. So I let her do it until I came. I was not happy about this! Anyway I needed her money for some of the rent. So I continued to let her do this but I did not like it. I never had intercourse with her….until things got really bad 1.5 yrs later. I told her to move. I wasn’t happy, she wasn’t happy etc. She agreed but she said she’d need time to find a place. Additionally, she was working on her dissertation for her P.h.d. in neuro-psychology (of all things) and needed additional weeks because she couldn’t be int- erupted. Well a week later she came home in a shitty mood and I told her I’d not give her the 6 weeks to find another place to live if she was going to behave like this. I did something stupid because I was fed up. I grabbed her by the sweatshirt and physically marched her out the front door. She called the police, I went to jail over night for domestic. I was afraid she would file charges and hit me with bogus medical bills as she went to the E.R. She was absolutely fine but she was going to trump it up. She moved out but then came back 3 weeks later to get her things. I was laying on the couch after my morning shower in my robe when she came down stairs in a shirt but nothing underneath. She pulled my robe open and sat on me grinding away. I was afraid she’d hit me with the medical expenses if I refused. I kept my eyes closed and she told me to cum inside her. I obliged but reluctantly. She jumped off and went about her business moving out. I’m 6’3 250lbs. I was afraid of her. She was a counselor of all things!!!!!!

By: Jonathan

Jonathan — Wed, 21 Dec 2011 22:58:48 +0000

Of course it is possible to get an erection when unconscious, open a text book. Erections are involuntary. Even when a man is unconscious, if his penis is stimulated enough it will become erect and can then be shoved into a vulva or an anus. Failing everything else, a rubber band wrapped round a penis will keep it stuck in a state of erection for as long as it is there.

Hope that helps, Saumya.

By: saumya

saumya — Thu, 08 Dec 2011 14:56:02 +0000

i just wanted to ask is it possible to rape a guy when he’s unconscious? is it possible to to get an erection when that person is unconscious? my friend’s friends says that she’s pregnant with his baby but he dosen’t remember anything.. he never had sex with her but may be he feels when was unconscious he was being raped..is this possible?? please help!

By: billy williams

billy williams — Mon, 05 Dec 2011 05:38:25 +0000

Erection can mean you are attracted to someone,Surprised,or for no reason at all,-I’ve had erections for no reason,-It’s not a choice. I sympathize with this guy,Rape is always wrong & traumatizing no matter the genders,Hope you can recover “Mike”.

By: Father Time

Father Time — Fri, 18 Nov 2011 06:24:28 +0000

Erection is not proof of consent. I highly doubt you’ve never had an involuntary erection. Although maybe I’m wrong and you have 100% control. Most guys don’t. Most guys will get erect if you stimulate it long enough.

By: The Blaqnite

The Blaqnite — Thu, 03 Nov 2011 16:55:31 +0000

Ok, when I was about 5, I had a babysitter, a neighbor’s daughter, grind on me when she was about 8 or so. I’ve similar experiences as I grew up, including an orgy (pants up, with some and down with others) in the home of four sisters, while their mother and older sister were away from home. But that was my first introduction to the concept of having sex. I even had an older girl (11) when I was about 7, to want kiss and grind and try to imitate the act of having sex, in every case, save the orgy, it was something that the girl initiated, so the idea that women can be the aggressor isn’t all that much of a stretch! Those events were nearly 35 – 40 years ago, but now as an adult, I don’t know how likely it is I wouldn’t be inclined to have sex with even the ugliest and most unattractive of women. After all, below the waist, it’s all the same. The experience may feel a little different or vary in ways, but all in all not much really changes, all things being equal.

If it was a hermaphrodite, I could understand and maybe the fact that he was simply unwilling is sufficient enough to evoke sympathy for what this guy experienced but I’m not hundred percent about that. Could he have joined in? Could he have placed demands or conditions on her or somehow declined to be a participant? I think he could, if he really and truly was inclined not to maintain an erection. I know I can call off the dogs anytime I want, so I’m not sure how you can be an unwilling participant??

By: Randy

Randy — Wed, 02 Nov 2011 23:17:52 +0000

So just because he was stronger it isn’t rape? Rape is about power and control. She obviously had the control with the blackmail which indeed it was. Power with the fact she had a child in her. Did he put himself in a horrible situation? Yes but that doesn’t change the fact that yes he was raped. You are looking at this from a feminist way, obviously you have a strong case of penis envy. I bet if he had said he knocked her flat you would have had something to say to that too.

By: Father Time

Father Time — Thu, 06 Oct 2011 23:25:01 +0000

For someone to explain what I wrote to you? It’s not that complicated.